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110Mike C March 21, 2012 at 1:57 am
My hope is different. I hope she understand in the deepness of her heart that a guy giving her a chance is very valuable
Thumbs Up and High Five!
111Jones March 21, 2012 at 2:16 am
The conversation here is so narrow-minded. Susan tried to raise a point about the broader culture, and all you’ve discussed so far is how much of a slut this girl is and how no man should get with her. Great, whatever, but the post was not about one girl and how much of a slut she is.
I think this site has potential, but it is often squandered on small-minded conversation. On this thread there’s a very silly “human interest” angle. Why not take a breather from the “slut-shaming” for a second and look at the bigger questions?
112Emily March 21, 2012 at 3:03 am
“Betas certainly aren’t the center of a attention at the biggest parties. But women certainly don’t go to those parties looking for good beta guys. They go looking for the Alpha commanding the room. So in that case, I guess they get what they deserve.”
To be fair, it’s not like guys wear badges that identify them as either Alpha or Beta. In some cases, it’s extremely obvious. In other cases, not so much. And it’s probably a lot less obvious to girls who doesn’t read these blogs. I think people tend to oversimplify with the Alpha/Beta thing. In reality, it’s not quite that black and white.
That being said, she should figure out a guy’s character BEFORE she sleeps with him. But it sounds like she’s starting to realize this. Although she’s created a huge mess for herself, this is a huge step towards improvement.
113Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 7:36 am
@Mike C
““You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight”
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